Tinder, the app synonymous with swiping left and right, is witnessing a fascinating shift. New research from our 2023 Future of Dating Report reveals a surprising trend – Gen Z prioritizes authenticity over aesthetics when seeking connections. Moving Beyond the Profile Picture: Gone are the days when a perfectly curated profile picture was the sole […]
Second Time Around: Why Dating After 50 Can Be Surprisingly Successful
The face of dating is changing. While 18-year-olds are the most frequent new users on dating apps, a surprising runner-up demographic is emerging: people over 50! Empty Nest Syndrome and the Dating Re-Entry Many individuals in their 50s find themselves re-entering the dating scene after experiencing “empty nest syndrome.” Their children have flown the coop, […]
From Assortative Mating to Self-Expression: The Evolution of Dating
Imagine this: 300,000 years ago, there were no fancy first dates or elaborate courtship rituals. Dating, as we know it, simply didn’t exist. Survival and procreation were the main drivers behind who you ended up with. This concept, called assortative mating, meant finding someone similar to yourself – someone who looked similar and behaved in […]
Why Some Couples Thrive While Others Struggle
Marriage. It can be a source of immense joy, companionship, and support. Yet, statistics paint a concerning picture: a staggering 80% of current marriages are reported as less satisfying than ever. But why such a stark contrast? Here at Cerys, we explore the reasons behind this “marriage paradox” and offer tips to help your relationship […]
Attachment Styles and Sex: Understanding Your Connection for a More Fulfilling Experience
Did you know your attachment style, that core pattern of relating formed in early childhood, can impact your sexual experiences? Recent research sheds light on the connection between attachment and intimacy, particularly in casual encounters. The study explored orgasm rates and attachment styles in different sexual scenarios. Here’s what they found: Understanding Your Attachment Style: […]
The Five Pillars of a Thriving Relationship: Building a Foundation for Growth Together
Flourishing in life isn’t a solo endeavor. While personal growth is key, research suggests that having a strong partner by your side can significantly accelerate and sustain your journey. But what qualities make a truly exceptional partner, one who empowers you to reach your full potential? Cerys dives into the five key characteristics identified through […]
Leaving or Healing? Understanding Narcissistic Relationships
The complexities of narcissistic relationships can leave you feeling lost and unsure. This excerpt highlights a common question: “Can a narcissist change?” At Cerys, we understand the challenges you face. While we cannot offer clinical diagnoses, we can provide resources and support to help you navigate a relationship with someone exhibiting narcissistic traits. Understanding Narcissistic […]
The Ripple Effect of Self-Investment: How Small Steps Lead to Big Wins in Your Relationships
There’s a truth we often overlook: in today’s world, simply “not being bad” isn’t enough. Just going through the motions, both in life and in relationships, keeps us stuck in a state of mediocrity. But the good news is, even small investments in ourselves can yield extraordinary results, creating a ripple effect that benefits not […]
Invest in the Relationships That Matter Most
As we navigate the whirlwind of life, it’s easy to get caught up in the daily grind: chasing careers, accumulating possessions, and ticking off achievements. But what if, when the curtain closes on our lives, the things we truly cherish aren’t the accolades or material gains, but the intimate connections we forged with others? Imagine […]
Gen Z Dating: Ditching Fakes, Embracing Feels – Why “Utter Authenticity” is the New Dating Currency
Gone are the days of judging a book by its cover, at least for Gen Z daters. This generation, steeped in a world of curated online personas and witnessed struggles of inauthenticity, prioritizes something far deeper: utter authenticity. “They dress how they want to dress, say what they want to say,” explains the quote, highlighting […]